Saturday, September 22, 2012

An update on Claire

We found out that Claire is in foster care in a big city, and has been since a month after she was found. This is wonderful news because foster care tends to be better, and that is how she was probably able to have her lip fixed already. The best part is that I found pictures of her from last year on their blog!!!!!!!!!!  So here some are!

 Here is the youngest pic we have
 This is soon after her lip surgery
 Happy, laughing Claire
 Look at that sweet chunk!!  She looks like a good eater
Making silly faces!

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Introducing Claire Yuting





Here is our beautiful daughter! This picture was taken when she was 13-14 months old and she is now 20 months old. I know you guys want some info- so I am going to share!

In January she was 19.5 pounds and 26 in tall. (so anyone want to guess what size clothes she will need??)

She likes to be held, and we knew she was ours when we read that she does not like to sleep (she is like her brothers already!!)  She does not like to be by herself (just like our Noah). She is a good eater (also just like those brothers!) The nannies said that she is extroverted, impatient, and loves music.

She had her cleft lip repaired on Scott's birthday last year.

She will be 2 on December 23. We would love to either be in China then or have her home by then- but that would take a miracle. We do know Someone in the miracle business- so we are asking for this selfish prayer to be answered, and would love everyone to pray with us.

Before we travel- there are several steps. China first has to approve our dossier and they will send a Letter of Acceptance (LOA) when that happens. This is the step that pretty much determines when we will travel. Travel usually happens about 10-12 weeks after LOA. Soooo if we want to travel 12-15 then we would have to have LOA by the first week in October.  China usually takes 3-4 months to issue LOA- so getting it that soon (2 months from our dossier getting to China) really will take a miracle.

Before we travel we have to come up with the rest of the money. So far we have paid about 6K in agency fees, 1150 to the chinese government, 620.94 to UPS for sending the dossier all over the place, about 650 dollars to get the various seals on all the dossier papers.  That is close to 8,500 so far.   There can't be much left, right???

Well, we have one more agency fee- 2,200, the orphanage fee 5,500, plane tickets 4,000 (we are guessing- 2 round trip and 1 one-way!) in China travel 3,300 (hotels, plane tickets in China, cab fares), Spending money for China 3,000 (food, tips for the guides, and money for various paperwork that has to be done in China. This is what our agency says to bring, and if you want a bunch of souvenirs to bring even more!)  So that is about 18,000 we still need. This also does not include the time I will take off work- I don't get paid if I am not there since I work part time, and the deductibles and co-pays for Claire's medical needs.

Obviously we are scrimping and saving. I worked extra this summer. We don't buy many "extra's" including cable TV. We don't eat out unless our parents treat.  I tuck away some cash every time I get paid. We are collecting all of our change in  a big jar that will go toward the spending money in China. I am borrowing a suitcase and a jacket from friends when we travel.

We are doing a huge fundraiser- and we really could use more help. If you want to help-let me know. We are doing a both hands project- http://bothhandsfoundation.org/scott-and-kathy-gilreath  We are repairing a widow's house and the workers send out flyers asking for sponsors for the day. The money goes to help fund adoption expenses. (Both Hands disperses the funds to our agency- we don't just get a big check).  We still need workers to help that day, and we need addresses to send the flyers to. If you would be willing to share you Christmas card mailing list or whatever- please let me know. If you want to donate- you can do that on our project page. We do not want to take away from ministries that others already support- and those not interested will just throw the flyer away and not think twice about it. But every dollar helps- even if someone sends in 5 dollars instead of spending it at starbucks- we would be grateful.  So help an orphan and a widow and join in!!!! It will be fun and rewarding, I promise.

I get to mail Claire a package. I am including a photo book so she will be able to look at her family. Hang on our little Claire Bear. We are coming. Hopefully soon!!!!!

Sunday, September 2, 2012

LOI has been sent!

What is a LOI? It is a Letter of Intent to adopt a specific child.  This year for our anniversary, our agency gave us the best gift ever. Here is how it played it:


My phone rang. Colorado area code. I thought they were calling to tell us not to get our hopes up for a referral for that day.

Me: Hello
her: Hi! this is P with your agency. Happy Anniversary!!
Me: thanks!!
Her: I really am calling with a referral.
Me: Are you sure???
her: laughs. Yes!! But she is younger than you thought- but we have not gotten any files on older kiddos recently. (she then describes the kiddo) Do you want to see the file?
Me: YES!!!!! (as I burst into tears)


So I forward the file to scott, read the file, see the pictures, crying the whole time because I Know I am looking at my daughter.  Poor scott had a work emergency and couldn't look for a whole hour.

So we did a flurry of paperwork, including the letter of intent. The LOI will be sent to China, and China will send us a PA (pre-acceptance) that we are matched. When we get PA we will be allowed to post pictures- so there will be a huge announcement with pictures and her name in about a week!!!


So she is beautiful. She will be 2 in december. She has several medical needs- her biggest is cleft lip and palate. Her lip has been repaired but her palate has not and probably won't be fixed in China.

We are soooooooooo excited!

We are so blessed to have our miracle mudpie makers. Share our joy and our journey.